6 ways to love yourself better through Masturbation and Sex Toys.
I didn’t know Self Love could be this fun!
Whenever I think of Self Love, I eventually think of the process of accepting and embracing everything; even the bad things about yourself. The way I see it, loving yourself is to embrace your insecurities, to treat yourself kindly, to throw away the stress and toxicities, to live a life of peace and joy - but boy am I telling you, IT IS NOT EASY.
But did you know that this process can be fun… and sexy?
“How?”, as you may ask.
Through masturbation and sex toys, you silly!
Multiple studies show that Masturbation can actually ease your stress out. By doing the deed, you’re actually releasing a lot of tension and weight off of your shoulders. You see, when you orgasm, your brain releases chemicals including oxytocin, norepinephrine, vasopressin, prolactin and (the feel-good hormone) serotonin, making you feel calm and allowing you to sleep better.
Don’t act surprised, I know you do it during the tiresome, sleepless nights.
Can you imagine how you’ll drop the stress off with better masturbation? Toys are friends, they’re created for a reason – to give you pleasure.
By having orgasms, did you know that your immune system gets strengthened? Yes, the O increases the body's levels of immunoglobulin A, or IgA, an antibody that helps fights infections and the common cold.
Plus, having orgasms can lessen your headaches. Having climax gives excellent pain relief from migraines and cluster headaches. Not only that, studies show that orgasms increase one’s pain threshold, giving ailment to a variety of ailments, from migraines to rheumatoid arthritis.
Have I told you that orgasms can lower your blood pressure, reduce risks of heart attacks and prevents men from having prostate cancer too?
Yes, honey! Having so much fun never felt this good!
By exploring yourself through masturbation, you start to feel more comfortable about your own body. You leave inhibitions behind while having to appreciate and feel better about yourselves.
Thus, orgasms can give that extra glow!
When we orgasm, blood vessels open up due to increased blood flow to the skin, giving us that flushed look. Also, regular orgasms can improve your complexion by helping the blood carry important nutrients to the skin.
Furthermore, after an orgasm, levels of DEA in your bloodstream soar to five times its normal amount - giving you that younger, fresher look. DEA hormones are those in your anti-ageing supplements. So, why spend so much on creams when you can benefit for free?
Masturbation, being a solo act in nature, allows you to keep the creativity flowing. Well, imagination is boundless. Whether you like it rough or sweet, it’s all on you! Nothing and no one can stop you from doing what you want, from fulfilling your ultimate fantasies.
So, light the candles up, hit that spotify playlist you’ve been hoarding, turn the vibrations on, and just do it your way!
No hesitations. No inhibitions. No judgments.
By experimenting, exploring and discovering things that turn you on, you can now guide your partner, if there’s any, about how to satisfy you, about how to reach your climax.
No more not knowing what you like, no more fake-moans, no more pretentions.
Just know how to communicate well and take it to the next level. Afterall, great sex can make a relationship even stronger.
Have you heard of an old myth that masturbation and sex toys can decrease your ability to have sex with a partner? Well, myth-busted!
In fact, Regular masturbation and use of sex toys has been shown to increas sexual function, lubrication, arousal and orgasm during sex. Turns out, your sex is like a show — the more you practice, the better the performance.
To love yourself is to look after your whole self and taking care of your inner and outer well-being. Being comfortable with your own skin is giving more respect to yourself. There’s no greater love other than having to embrace your whole. You deserve pleasure and connection. Go get it!
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